Episode 1. Stepping Out of the World's Parade
This week on Christianityworks, we’re starting a new Series called Living the Life God Always Intended. So are you living that life? If you have a sneaking suspicion there’s more to life, why …
It’s a hard road, it’s a hard road to take up our cross and to crucify our flesh and humble ourselves and to follow Jesus and it hurts some days, but staying in bondage is harder.
No Padded Cross
This week on Christianityworks I’m really excited because we’re starting a new series called ‘Living the Life that God always Intended.’ A lot of people believe in God, believe in Jesus, but they live life with a sneaking suspicion that there must be more to life, maybe I’m not living life to the full. I don’t know about you but I want to be all that God made me to be, I want to do all that God made me to do, I want to live that life that God always planned for me in full, but to live that life God says, “Look we’ve got to die before we can live.” You know there’s a wonderful passage in Hebrews chapter 5 verses 11 to 14, and it says this: “About this we have much to say that is hard to explain since you have become dull of understanding.” Welcome to Christianityworks! “For though by this time you ought to be teachers you need someone to teach you again the basic elements of the oracles of God, you need milk not solid food. For everyone who lives on milk, being still an infant, is unskilled in the words of righteousness. But solid food is for the mature and those whose faculties have been trained by practice to distinguish good from evil.”
What the writer of Hebrews is saying there is that milk, milk is about meeting Jesus, milk is about the basic gospel salvation message and we all need that, don’t get me wrong we all need that, it’s about what Jesus did for me on the cross. But solid food, solid food is about following Him, solid food is about living that out, solid food is teaching that lifts us to a new level of maturity. What does this all mean in my life today? And Jesus said, “If anyone would follow me then let them deny themselves and take up their cross.”
Well, this week on Christianityworks we’re starting a series of solid food, of solid teaching on living the life that God always intended, and that teaching begins with that statement from Jesus, “if anyone would follow me then let them deny themselves and take up their cross.” There’s a wonderful saying and I heard it first from a woman called Joyce Myer, she said there are no padded crosses. You know something she’s right because what that denying ourselves and following Jesus means is saying, “look what I want in my life is not that important, what I am and who I am and my pleasures and my comforts they’re not the important things. The important thing is putting Jesus first, the important thing is saying, ‘I’m going to die to myself so that I can live for Jesus.’” And when we look at that picture of the cross of crucifixion it’s an ugly picture it’s not an easy thing, and Jesus is saying I want you to loose your life for my sake and in doing that you’ll gain eternal life, that means giving up some things.
That means putting up with some people that we don’t want to put up with, that means shutting our mouths when we want to fight back. That means forgiving someone when our guts are falling out and when it’s not fair. This saying of Jesus strikes at the very heart of our faith, it’s crunch time, take up your cross, die to self and live for Jesus. Have you ever watched a person die? The body fights, they call it the death rattle because it doesn’t want to give up, the flesh doesn’t want to die and yet the Bible tells us that we are in Christ. It’s as though I take my Bible I put a piece of paper in it, I close the Bible, that piece of paper is in the Bible, and if we are in Christ we have died and risen again with him, it’s a matter of history. But now Jesus is saying take up your cross every day and follow me, that is a matter of present day reality, it’s a case of living out what Jesus has done for me. The Apostle Paul writes, “Look I carry around the death of Jesus in me so that I may live His life.”
We have two options, we can stay at a distance and we can say, “Well you know something Jesus I want to believe in you from a distance and hold on to the stuff, the old self that I want to hold on to.” That’s the easiest option but it means we end up staying in bondage. The much harder choice is abandoning the old self completely to Christ, the much harder choice is saying, “You know, if I have actually died and risen again, if Jesus died for me that I might have forgiveness of sins and I’ve accepted Jesus into my life that means I am dead to sin and alive to Christ, and that means abandoning the old self completely to Jesus.” That’s hard, but that’s when we get set free and that’s when we live the life that God always intended.
“Father I pray that as we go through this teaching series beginning this week you will open our hearts to some of the things that you have to say that are hard yet some of the things Lord that you have to say that you want to use to set us free. Father I pray as we open your word right now you would open our hearts and pour your wisdom and your grace and your love in, in a way that we can accept it so that we can live the life that you always intended for us. Father, we ask this in the name of Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.”
We going to go today and look at a part of the Bible which is maybe one of my favourite books, it’s Paul’s letter, the Apostle Paul, when he wrote to the church in Philippi, so it’s the book of Philippians, you’ll find it in the New Testament about half way through. And this is a wonderful letter from Paul, it’s a letter of joy and affection, have a look how the letter starts beginning in chapter 1 and verse 3. If you have a Bible grab it because we’re going to be spending some time in God’s word today.
Paul says, “I thank my God every time I remember you, constantly praying with joy in every one of my prayers for all of you, because of you sharing in the gospel from the first day until now. I’m confident of this that the One who began a good work among you will bring it to completion by the day of Jesus Christ. It is right for me to think this way about all of you because you hold on to me in your heart. For all of you share in God’s grace with me both in my imprisonment and in the defense and confirmation of the gospel. For God is my witness how I long for all of you with the compassion of Jesus Christ, and this is my prayer that your love may overflow more and more with a knowledge and full insight to help you to determine what is best so that in the day of Christ you may be pure and blameless having produced the harvest of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ for the glory and the praise of God.”
This is a beautiful letter from Paul to his friends and he say’s, “my prayer for you is you know I rejoice for you people, I’m just delighted that you’ve come to Jesus and my prayer for you is that your love would overflow more and more with the knowledge and full insight.” Ever met a Christian like that? The love of Jesus is just pouring out of them; well the sad thing is that Christians like that are all too rare in the Kingdom of God. A W Tozer wrote, “Much of our difficulty as Christians stems from our unwillingness to take God as He is and adjust our lives accordingly. We insist on trying to modify Him and to bring Him nearer to our own image, the flesh whimpers against the rigor of God’s inexorable sense and begs for a little mercy, a little indulgence of its carnal ways, the world is full of carnal Christians.”
Dying to Self
Well yes there are a lot of carnal Christians wandering around the world today and that’s why Paul goes on to write in this letter to the Philippians that we need to die to ourselves, question is how do we do that? If we want to live the life that God always intended, how do we die to ourselves? Let’s have a read of Philippians chapter 2 beginning at verse 1, this is what Paul writes: “If then there is any encouragement in Christ, any consolation from love, any sharing in the Spirit, any compassion, any sympathy, make my joy complete, be of the same mind having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind. Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit but in humility regard others as being better than you. Let each of you look not on your own interests but to the interests of others, let the same mind be in you that was in Christ Jesus.” In other words if this whole Jesus thing means anything to you, if Jesus had any impact on you at all then be of the same mind, be in full accord even if you have different views and different perspectives. When we see things differently what do we actually want? Am I looking for my will of Jesus’ will? Let’s just talk that through for a minute.
We need to be aware of the difference, when we’re in conflict with someone. Step one is often we don’t even get there to ask, “Am I trying to chase down my will or the will of Jesus Christ?” Why? Because we’re full of pride, we can’t agree, look at verse 3 again, “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility regard others as being better than yourselves.” In other words humble yourselves, back down, because pride, pride says God can only work if it’s done my way, what are my motives? Look at Jesus, Jesus said, “Come to me all you who are heavily laden and I will give you rest, take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart.” Jesus said, “I am humble in heart,” yet he made a whip and drove traders from a temple.
In Matthew chapter 23 we see the great denunciation where He called the Pharisees the “brood of vipers,” “you white washed tombs,” was that humble? Humble equals lowly, humble equals considers others to be better than yourself. Now there’s a right way and a wrong way to do that. The right way is to know who we are as a son or daughter of the living God, and willingly lay down our lives by taking up Jesus Christ. That’s what Jesus did, he said, “I have the power to lay down my life and I have the power to take it up again. Humility is a willing laying down of our lives, the wrong way of being humble is to be a victim, to be a doormat, and we can’t really be humble unless we’re secure in Jesus. I mean look at Jesus when he got angry, when he raged, when he roared as the Lion of Judah who was he doing that for, himself or others?
Well actually he never did it for himself, he always did it for others, for little people, and when we’re in conflict, this conflict thing is so important if we are going to live the life that God always intended; we have to look at our motives and look to our interests, read verse 4 again of Philippians chapter 2. “Let each of you look not to your own interests but to the interests of others. Let the same mind be in you as was in Christ Jesus.” In other words look at your motives and we’ll get the right answer, consider others better than yourself, in other words my self doesn’t matter, my reputation, my will, my desire to control, my ego, my perception, none of those things matter. Consider others better than yourself, look to others interests, die to self. Well what if we can’t agree? Then it’s time to accept God’s authority, in all but the most exceptional of circumstances, if we’re in a church family situation we should back down, and if your conscience allows you to support the other person to the hilt, then that’s what we should do. You know it’s very rare that we’re in conflict with someone when the other person is just flat black and white sinfully wrong.
If we can’t agree with them we should be like Jesus, “let the same mind be in you that is in Christ Jesus who though He was in a form of God didn’t regard equality with God as something to be exploited. But He emptied Himself taking the form of a slave being born in human likeness and being found in human form He humbled Himself and became obedient to the point of death even death on a cross and as a result God highly exalted Him and gave Him the name which is above every name so that at the name of Jesus every knee should bend in heaven and on earth and under the earth and every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord.”
Is it Biblical to back down? Absolutely that’s what Jesus did on the cross. Sometimes we think well if we let the other bloke win, I’ve lost, no, if we humble ourselves like Jesus and lay down our rights and what we deserve, what I’m entitle to then he will exalt us. Humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God so that He may exalt you in due time. Disunity happens when Christians don’t yield, the question is when Jesus humbled himself even unto death on a cross what was he yielding to? Because the things that people could see were the Romans, the Sadducees, the Pharisees, the powers of darkness, evil and sin, it looked like He had been defeated, but there was something unseen. There was God, there was God’s plan, there was God’s plan to take the suffering of his Son to bring you and me eternal life, you see God had a bigger plan than what people could see. Was it easy for Jesus? No, go to Gethsemane, Jesus said, “I am deep distressed, Lord if you can take this cup of suffering from me, but not my will let your will be done.”
See Jesus wasn’t just doing it he was doing it willingly with God’s grace, that’s why Paul goes on to write, “therefore my beloved,” verse 12 of chapter 2 of Philippians, “therefore my beloved just as you have always obeyed me, not only in my presence, but much more now in my absence work out your own salvation with fear and trembling for it is God who is at work in you enabling you both to will and to work for his good pleasure. Do all things without murmuring and arguing so that you maybe blameless and innocent children of God without blemish in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation in which you shine like stars in the world.”
I love that, work out your salvation in fear and trembling, verses murmuring and arguing, come on, God’s speaking to us today, God is saying if you want to have the life that I’ve always planned for you, you have to learn to die, have to learn to take up my cross and follow me and repent. Because if we murmur and argue, no, that’s not it, we need to work out our salvation in fear and in trembling.
When Losing is Winning
Well we’re looking today at living the life that God always intended for us and it’s tough you know when we’re having arguments, when we’re having descent, when we want our own way and yet God says “no, give in, yield, lay down, I have a bigger plan, its not about you winning all the time.” Just like it didn’t seem that Jesus won on the cross yet on that cross He won the greatest victory of all history because He purchased a life an eternal life for you and for me, and as we love each other, as we lay down our lives and don’t argue and we just ooze out the love of God this is how the world is supposed to know the difference between us and them. Not by a Jesus bumper sticker not by a Bible in our hands as we piously go to church on Sunday, not because we frown at the gay Mardi Gras, tsk, tsk, tsk, not because when the media wants a comment from the church they stick some Pharisee there who talks about doctrine and dogma, no!
“A new commandment I give unto you that you love one another as I have loved you, by this shall all men know that you are my disciples, if you have love one for another.” “Do all things,” in Philippians chapter 2 verse 14, “without murmuring or arguing so that you may be blameless and innocent children of God, without blemish in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation in which you will shine like stars.” That’s God’s plan, God’s plan is as He touches us with His love and we’re changed, we’re fundamentally changed, we have the same mind that was in Christ Jesus who didn’t say, “look I’m God I’m not going to the cross,” Jesus said, “no, I know it’s not fair, I know it’s not right, but I will go to the cross for Berni, I will go to the cross in fact for every person who ever lived so that if they put their faith in me they can have eternal life. You and I didn’t deserve that, we didn’t deserve a Jesus who would do that for us but He did it anyway, and people this is what you and I are suppose to look like.
This is the life that God always intended for us, so that we’re without blemish in a crooked and perverse generation in which we shine like stars, “and this is my prayer for you,” says Paul “that your love may overflow more and more.” That it would overflow out of the front of your house, that your love would flow out of the front door of your church, that your love would flow out of your heart, so the people around you cant help but notice it. But there is a price, humbling ourselves, exalting Jesus about all no matter what it costs us can be a huge price, can I ask you a question? Have you made a once and for all decision, not just in the head but in heart that yourself, your rights, your entitlements, you’re prepared to lay them down for Jesus? I believe that God is calling you today to make that decision, for the first time if you’ve never made it, or afresh.
I going to pray in a moment, it’s hard to do that but there are benefits, a thousand minor problems disappear, you know being touchy, pretence, pride, when we make that once and for all decision to lay down our lives and have the same mind as Christ. To be humble even though He was God He was found in human form and He humbled himself and became obedient to the point of death even death on a cross, are we prepared to do that? Are we prepared to lay down our rights and our lives when it’s not fair? Because at that point we begin to live the life that God always intended, why? Because we cease to worry about what the world thinks, we cease to worry about what we want and we need and we demand and we desire, the only thing that matters is that Jesus is glorified in our own lives. And then, then we shine like stars, people go “man that person loves me,” it’s a hard road, it’s a hard road to take up our cross and to crucify our flesh and to humble ourselves and to follow Jesus and it hurts some days but staying in bondage is harder.
Will you take that once and for all decision to exalt God above all? To lay down your life, to clothe yourself in Christ, will you choose from this day forth to pray for your enemies, to consider others better than yourself, to loose yourself for Jesus, to loose the battles for Jesus, no matter what the cost? Jesus humbled himself for me, he humbled himself for you, will we humble ourselves for him? Let’s pray:
“Father, what you say here is so hard some days, and it hurts so much some days, we want what we want and Lord sometimes we want to win the arguments we want to win the fights and we want to be right and we want to get what we deserve. But Jesus you allowed yourself to be nailed to a cross for us, and when we look at that cross we can’t help but be changed. And so Father, this day because of your grace, because of your love, because of your mercy, because of what Jesus did for us on the cross, this day we want to take that once and for all decision to lay down our lives, to exalt you above all things no matter what the cost, no matter what the price, no matter how much it hurts, no matter how long it takes, we will live our lives for you by your grace and your mercy. Father, send your Spirit to strengthen us to enliven us to empower us to be like Jesus. We ask that in the mighty name of our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.
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